Enneagram + Life Coaching
I help people go from stressed and stuck to grounded and growing
In-Person Appointments: East Bay Area in San Francisco, California
Online Appointments: Via Zoom for US + International Clients
▶︎ Know Your Next Steps
▶︎ Regain Control Of Your Life
▶︎ Feel More Peace & Freedom
Does the chaotic season you’re in right now have you feeling stressed and disconnected?
Feel like life has been flipped upside down?
Lacking a sense of peace or losing hope for the future?
Dealing with anger or resentment that won’t go away?
Keep shooting yourself in the foot with unhelpful patterns?
Walking through a “dark night of the soul”?
Asking “Who am I really?”
Deep down feeling afraid you’re missing “it”?
Feel like the ground has fallen out beneath your feet?
Life’s too short to stay stuck. You shouldn’t have to miss out on your most important relationships, repeating the same cycles, and feeling boxed in.
Let’s use this chaotic season of your life as the springboard into your next level of growth.
My Enneagram-Based Life Coaching will help you calm the chaos
Become grounded and peaceful - no matter how the tornado around you spins. I can help you:
● Regain hope and a vision for your future
● Move through anger and resentments
● Replace unhelpful patterns with helpful ones
● Mine the gold out of a “dark night of the soul”
● Discover who you are (maybe for the first time)
● Regain your footing and understand the journey you’re on
● Know what your next step is to grow
Make powerful progress through a unique enneagram-based coaching experience
4 key characteristics are blended together to help you
Psychological
Most of us have mental roadblocks like limiting beliefs, defense mechanisms, and self-defeating behaviors.
I help you identify and work through the psychological challenges holding you back.
Spiritual
No matter your belief system, I believe we all are on a spiritual journey that can feel both bright and dark at times.
I help you tune into and clarify what you’re hearing and sensing at this point in your life.
Strategic
Change and growth doesn’t have to take years - it can happen much faster if you’re taking the right steps for how you’re wired.
That’s why I use the Enneagram as a map for growth to identify the next step that will make the biggest difference for you.
Actionable
If you’re looking for a sounding board but have no desire to grow - I’m not the coach for you.
While clients often tell me I’m compassionate, calm, and welcoming, I also help clients get more than their money’s worth by empowering them to take action.
Ready to make a change? You’ve come to the right place.
Certified Enneagram Practitioner and Certified Life Coach
Hi, I’m Kristi!
Over the years, I’ve noticed there are two choices people make in a chaotic season of life.
The first choice is to escape the season. They choose to busy themselves with things that make them feel better temporarily - new workout plans, diets, books, bottles of wine, you know the stuff… But in the end, they still lack the peace and calm they truly desire.
The second choice is to embrace the season. These courageous people choose to face the challenges, doubts, and questions in their life and transform into someone who is grounded and growing. They are able to find true peace in the storm, have more clarity, and emerge stronger.
If you’re in a season that feels like utter chaos - I understand the level of frustration and disorientation you might be feeling. I’ve been there too. That why since 2013, I’ve been using the Enneagram as a map and shortcut to figuring out the proven next steps for personal growth. I’ve helped over 150+ people apply this wisdom to their lives and can help you do that same.
So whether you’re ready to dip your toe in the water or dive in headfirst, your next step to figure out if Enneagram-based life coaching is a good fit for you is to schedule a mini-coaching session >
Want to know about my story? Read my full bio here >
I get it – deciding to meet with a life coach can feel daunting
You might even be wondering, “Is a life coach even a real thing!?” It is, I promise. And it’s a lot more legit than pop culture cracks it up to be.
But don’t take my word for it, read what clients have to say about it below.
✔︎ 11+ Years Of Enneagram Experience
✔︎ Certified Life Coach
(Through the International Coaching Federation… the gold standard of coaching certifications)
✔︎ Certified Enneagram Practitioner
(Through CP Enneagram Academy)
✔︎ Certified Transformational Coach
(Through Western Seminary)
✔︎ Helped over 150+ people apply the enneagram to their lives
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“What is most impressive about Kristi is her fluency with The Enneagram.
She understands and speaks about the numbers with such ease and authenticity. Kristi sees and articulates everyday life and its challenges through the lens of the enneagram. After being coached by her, I gained so much insight into understanding myself and those around me which brought more clarity and compassion into my relationships. Kristi loves what she does and it comes through every facet of her coaching.”
Devon J. - Therapist
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"Kristi’s depth of knowledge and insightful questions helped me to affirm that it is okay to be me.
We explored the strengths and weaknesses of my enneagram type which gave me language and background to observe some of my behaviors that hold me back. Exploring the “whys” behind my behavior in a non-judgmental, encouraging, positively charged coaching relationship was very empowering. Kristi affirmed me in my strengths and encouraged me in my weaknesses. Knowing my enneagram type has helped me to notice when I am operating out of hurt or pain so that I can address what lies beneath my actions and move forward in a healthy, honest way.”
Kimberly G. - Seminary Professor
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“Kristi is my sounding board and my hope giver!
We have met to talk about an array of topics from Enneagram, to ideas for my post retirement, to the challenge of living out our faith with non-complacency. She is gifted at listening, followed by responding with carefully chosen, wise words - seasoned with kindness, compassion, and always encouragement. It is my honor to endorse to others who Kristi has become for me - a trustworthy and treasured friend.
Marion A. - Retired Pediatric Dietitian
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"I was very stressed about my time management and how to prioritize different things I'm working on around my family life.
Kristi helped me confront the obstacles to certain parts of my working day. My experience with her was positive and useful. Afterwards I saw this in a much clearer light and felt empowered to set some boundaries for myself! Kristi's strengths are that she is intelligent and direct. She is encouraging but also firm. I remain grateful for Kristi's support and I would definitely recommend her.”
Bee R. - Author
You don’t have to stay stuck any longer.
I help people journeying through all kinds of chaotic, out of control, “life has been flipped upside down” seasons:
● Partner conflicts or divorce
● Kids leaving the house
● Struggling at work or losing a job
● Retirement
● Faith doubts, deconstruction, and reconstruction
I can be your guide and companion on this journey as you discover the strength inside you.
Here’s the plan
Working with me is simple
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Pick a service below that best fits your situation
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Meet with me for Enneagram-based life coaching
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Become grounded. Start growing.
Here are the ways I can help you
Free Mini-Coaching Session
In this 45 minute free “mini-session”, I can help you begin to identify what’s holding you back and identify the very next step you can take.
And this isn’t a sales call in disguise - we’re going to do actual coaching and help you start getting unstuck… for free. Click below to find a time that works for both of us.
Enneagram Kickstart
$299 | A 3-part experience to jumpstart your journey
If you’re ready to start moving in a different direction now, the Enneagram Kickstart coaching package is for you.
Understand your Enneagram type, how it impacts your daily life and relationships and specific steps you can take to regain a sense of control and experience more calm immediately.
This coaching package includes:
Enneagram Assessment (Discover or confirm your Enneagram type!)
2 live one-on-one coaching sessions
Receive meeting recordings for reference
100% money back guarantee
Enneagram Unlock
$665 | An 8-part experience to experience a major change
If you’re serious about going from stuck and overwhelmed to grounded and growing, then the Enneagram Unlock package is for you.
This experience will help you understand yourself better, identify next steps, and create more clarity and calm in your life as quickly as possible.
This coaching package includes:
Enneagram Assessment (Discover or confirm your Enneagram type!)
7 live one-on-one coaching sessions
Receive meeting recordings for reference
Experience change and clarity as soon as possible
$95 savings
100% money back guarantee
Other Services
“Falling Upward” Book Study
Wednesday mornings at 10-11am
April 17 - Mid Summer (exact date TBD)
Saint Luke’s Church in Walnut Creek, Ca
Join me and a group of women as we read Richard Rohr’s re-released book, “Falling Upward”. For more info and any questions send me an email at kristirider@gmail.com